
Ellen DeGeneres
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In the final special of her historic career, Ellen gets candid about fame, parallel parking and her life since getting "kicked out of show business".

I’ve seen Ellen DeGeneres do stand-up before—back when she was the sunny, observational comic who made audiences feel like they were chatting with a particularly witty friend over coffee. But For Your Approval, her 2024 Netflix special, isn’t that. It’s a performance haunted by the specter of her own legacy, a 70-minute attempt to reconcile the woman who once declared “be kind” with the one now labeled “mean” by former employees and tabloids alike.
The result is less a comedy special than a public reckoning, one that leaves you wondering: Can you ever really apologize through punchlines?
The special opens with a striking visual metaphor. DeGeneres walks through the backstage corridors of Minneapolis’ Orpheum Theatre, her face illuminated by projections of her own career milestones—clips from her 1990s sitcom, her talk show’s rise, the headlines that marked her fall. It’s a cinematic flourish, directed by Joel Gallen (who also helmed Chris Rock’s Selective Outrage), and it sets the tone: this won’t be a night of lighthearted jokes about airline peanuts.
Instead, it’s a curated stroll through the wreckage of a public persona, with DeGeneres as both tour guide and exhibit.

The problem, as critics have been quick to point out, is that For Your Approval often feels like a performance of accountability rather than the real thing. Judy Berman at Time called it “unfunny,” a sentiment echoed by Adam White in The Independent, who dismissed the special as a “jokey non-apology” [3, 10]. They’re not wrong.
Ellen DeGeneres has spent decades chasing the world’s approval—only to spend her final stand-up special declaring she’s done with it. Ellen DeGeneres: For Your Approval, the comedian’s 2024 Netflix special, isn’t just a farewell to live comedy; it’s a reckoning with her polarizing legacy, the fallout from The Ellen DeGeneres Show, and the relentless scrutiny that defined her career. latestnetflix.com's take is that Directed by Joel Gallen, the special premiered on September 24, 2024, capping a year of public reflection for DeGeneres, who announced in 2023 that she was stepping away from stand-up after 40 years .
Recorded at Minneapolis’ Orpheum Theatre in August 2024, For Your Approval arrives at a fraught moment for DeGeneres. Once America’s beloved daytime TV queen, she became a lightning rod for criticism in 2020 after former Ellen staffers accused her show of fostering a toxic workplace. Allegations of bullying, racism, and intimidation behind the scenes tarnished her “be kind” brand, leading to a public apology and a rebranding of the show’s final seasons .
The special leans into this fall from grace. Early in the set, DeGeneres stands beside a screen displaying headlines branding her the “Queen of Mean” and a “villain,” a moment critics called “emotionally raw” . It’s a rare glimpse of vulnerability from a comedian who built her career on sunny, apolitical charm. But as The New York Times noted, the most revealing part of the special comes when she admits she was “a poor fit to run a workplace”—a rare concession that women in leadership are often judged more harshly than men
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Netflix hasn’t released viewership numbers, but For Your Approval was reportedly a streaming success, with early buzz suggesting it outperformed DeGeneres’ 2020 special, Relatable . Fans praised her self-deprecating humor and willingness to address the elephant in the room, while detractors argued the special was too little, too late.
Former Ellen Show staffers, however, weren’t as forgiving. Rolling Stone reported that some employees felt the special glossed over the severity of the workplace allegations, framing DeGeneres as a victim of cancel culture rather than someone who enabled a toxic environment . One unnamed staffer told the outlet, “It’s like she’s rewriting history. The special makes it sound like she was just misunderstood, but the people who worked for her know the truth.”
DeGeneres’ obsession with public perception isn’t new. In For Your Approval, she jokes that she spent her entire career “trying to make everyone like me,” a line that lands with bittersweet irony given her recent reputation . The special’s title itself is a nod to this paradox: after decades of crafting a persona built on likability, she’s now asking audiences to accept her as she is—flaws and all.
Her wife, Portia de Rossi, appears briefly in the special, though her role is minimal. The couple, who married in 2008, have largely stayed out of the spotlight since DeGeneres’ public image took a hit, making their on-screen moment a quiet but notable inclusion .
With For Your Approval, DeGeneres isn’t just retiring from stand-up—she’s closing the book on a chapter of her life defined by relentless public scrutiny. Whether audiences accept her final act remains to be seen, but one thing is clear: Ellen DeGeneres is no longer asking for permission.
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