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My Best Friend, His Girlfriend and Me

2026
1h 38m
Director: Marco Petry
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Overview

Olli and Matze are best friends living, working and planning to travel the world together — until Matze's romance with Rebecca turns it all upside down.

Cast

12 people

Reviews

3 min read

The Friendship Trap: When Loyalty Becomes Possession

I’ve seen this story before—best friends, a new girlfriend, the unspoken rule that no one else is allowed to come between them. It’s a setup that’s been played for laughs in a hundred comedies, from Dude, Where’s My Car? to The Hangover. But My Best Friend, His Girlfriend and Me isn’t interested in the usual hijinks.

It wants to weaponize that dynamic, turning what should be a lighthearted romp into something far more uncomfortable. The problem? It doesn’t seem to realize how ugly its premise is—or, worse, it doesn’t care.

The film follows Olli (Kostja Ullmann), who’s convinced his best friend Matze (David Kross) has been “brainwashed” by his new girlfriend, Rebecca (Janina Uhse). Their long-planned world trip is in jeopardy, and Olli isn’t about to let a little thing like consent get in the way of saving his friend. What unfolds is a series of increasingly desperate attempts to sabotage the relationship, all under the guise of “loyalty.” The Whats-on-Netflix review calls it “mean-spirited” and “juvenile,” and it’s hard to argue with that assessment.

But the real issue isn’t just that the film isn’t funny—it’s that it doesn’t seem to understand why its central conflict is so unsettling.

A tense moment between Olli and Matze, their expressions strained as they sit on opposite sides of a café table

Audience Opinions

Broad evidence
Audience 4.2/10
"A mean-spirited and unfunny comedy that fails to endear its characters or deliver genuine laughs."

Viewers overwhelmingly describe the film as juvenile and insufferable, with characters that are difficult to root for. The humor falls flat, and the tangled gender politics leave audiences disengaged rather than entertained. While some expected a lighthearted comedy with heart, the movie instead feels weighed down by its own negativity.

What viewers praise
  • German-language appeal Some viewers appreciate the film as a rare German-language comedy on Netflix, though this alone isn’t enough to recommend it.
Common complaints
  • Unlikable characters The relationship dynamics are so off-putting that audiences find it hard to care about any of the characters or their conflicts.
  • Lack of humor The film is widely criticized for being unfunny, with jokes that fail to land even for German-speaking viewers.
  • Mean-spirited tone The overall vibe is described as juvenile and mean, making it an unpleasant watch rather than an enjoyable comedy.
  • Overcomplicated plot The simple premise of a love triangle escalates into an unnecessarily messy family feud, alienating viewers.
  • No heart or warmth Unlike other Netflix comedies, this film lacks emotional depth or relatable moments, leaving audiences cold.
Recommended for
German-language comedy seekers Fans of dark humor (with low expectations)

Buzz & Rumors

Public reports

My Best Friend, His Girlfriend and Me Turns a World Trip Into a Turf War

Netflix's German entry for mid-August is a jealousy comedy with a blunt premise. Two lifelong friends watch their plans collapse when a new girlfriend moves into the picture — and into their apartment . The result is being sold as chaotic and romantic in equal measure , but early reviews suggest the chaos wins.

A friendship versus girlfriend standoff

The core setup is simple. Olli believes his best friend Matze has been brainwashed by a new girlfriend, a shift that threatens their planned world trip, so he tries to push her out of their lives . That love triangle quickly escalates into what one preview calls an all out family feud, built around the idea that loyalty and romance cannot always share the same house [4].

The film follows two lifelong friends whose bond gets tested the moment a new woman enters their apartment and their lives [4]. Director Marco Petry frames it as a tale of stunted adulthood, jealousy, and frayed friendship [4]. Kostja Ullmann stars as Olli [2], alongside David Kross, Janina Uhse and Ferdinand Hofer [1]. Petry is credited as director [1][2], and as writer-director on the project .

Early reaction: mean, loud, on purpose

The first reviews do not describe a sweet bromance. One August 14, 2026 review says Petry leans into relentless cruelty in each scene rather than softening the characters [3]. In that reading, Olli plays as a detestable man-child while Matze comes off as too weak-willed to push back [3]. The same review calls their banter and characterization one-note but pushed hard for shock value [3].

That tone matches the other launch-day take. Netflix is described as delivering a comedy where friendship becomes a three-way affair, with the apartment itself turning into contested territory [4]. No critic scores are visible in the retrieved evidence. Rotten Tomatoes lists a page to track reviews, ratings and trailers for the film , but the snippet provides no score [6].

What we actually know — and what we don't

Hard facts from the search results are limited. Here is the solid part:

  • Title is listed as My Best Friend, His Girlfriend and Me (2026), directed by Marco Petry [1][2].
  • Original title is given as Mein bester Freund, seine Freundin und ich, from Germany, labeled comedy, with a duration of 98 min .
  • Arrival date is given as August 14, 2026 [2], with reviews also dated Aug 14, 2026 [3][4].
  • Confirmed names in snippets are Kostja Ullmann as Olli [2], plus David Kross, Janina Uhse and Ferdinand Hofer billed alongside Ullmann [1].
  • Ullmann is noted as best known for his role in Sommersturm [2].
  • The same pre-release item points viewers to Game Night as a hit film on Netflix from the same director [2].

There is no behind-the-scenes gossip in the retrieved snippets. No set stories, salaries, or production anecdotes appear [1][2][3][4][7]. Treat anything else circulating as rumor/unconfirmed until fuller credits and interviews surface.

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