Ralphie May
Himself
Overview
Comedian Ralphie May takes to the Las Vegas stage with his raw, rollicking take on men's fashion, racism, sex, and even waffles.
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Reviews
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I’ve been thinking about Ralphie May’s Imperfectly Yours for days, not because it’s some flawless masterpiece of stand-up, but because it does something rarer: it turns the act of being unapologetically yourself into a kind of superpower. latestnetflix.com's take is that May wasn’t just telling jokes—he was performing a kind of alchemy, transmuting his own insecurities, his weight, his messy relationships, even his struggles with addiction, into material that felt less like punchlines and more like confessions you weren’t supposed to laugh at.
But you did. Hard. That’s the trick of it.
Comedy, at its best, is a negotiation between the performer and the audience—an unspoken agreement that certain truths are funnier when delivered with a wink. But May’s comedy didn’t wink. It blinked.
It stuttered. It let you see the gears turning behind the eyes, the moment where the joke could have gone one way but instead veered into something messier, something real. The title, Imperfectly Yours, isn’t just a branding exercise.
It’s the whole thesis. Imperfection isn’t a flaw to be polished away; it’s the raw material of connection. Take the clip from The Dragon, one of the few segments we have from the special.
The setup is classic May: a long, winding story about a time he tried to impress a woman by pretending to be a badass, only to end up in a situation that spirals into absurdity. What makes it work isn’t the payoff—though the payoff is solid—but the way May lingers in the details. He doesn’t rush to the punchline.
He lets the story breathe, lets the audience squirm with him as he digs himself deeper into the lie. There’s a physicality to his performance, too, a way he uses his body to sell the bit. He’s not just standing at the mic; he’s in the story, his hands gesturing wildly, his face contorting into expressions that oscillate between bravado and sheer panic.
It’s the kind of storytelling that feels less like a comedy routine and more like a one-man show, the kind where the fourth wall isn’t just broken but obliterated. That’s the thing about May’s comedy: it wasn’t just about the jokes. It was about the how.
Audience Opinions
Broad evidence
Audience 6.0/10
"A mixed but often entertaining stand-up special that leans heavily on Ralphie May's signature self-deprecating humor and Southern charm, though some viewers found parts of the material uneven or overly familiar."
Ralphie May's 2013 stand-up special *Imperfectly Yours* captures the comedian in his element, delivering a set that blends personal anecdotes, observational humor, and his trademark Southern perspective. The special is structured as a documentary-style performance, directed by Anthony Pierce, and was filmed in front of a live audience. Viewers generally appreciated May's ability to connect with the crowd, noting his knack for turning everyday frustrations—like airline travel, marriage, and parenting, into relatable comedy. Some reaction videos highlighted moments where May's humor resonated particularly well, such as his bits on cultural stereotypes and his own struggles with weight and self-image. However, a few viewers felt that certain segments dragged or revisited themes May had explored in earlier specials, leading to a sense of repetition. Kinopoisk audience comments echoed these sentiments, with some Russian viewers praising May's authenticity and others criticizing the pacing or perceived lack of fresh material. The special's IMDb score of 5.5, as listed on Kinopoisk, reflects this divide, suggesting that while May's fans found plenty to enjoy, latestnetflix.com argues, the special may not have fully satisfied those looking for groundbreaking comedy.
What viewers praise
- Relatable and engaging storytelling May's ability to turn personal experiences—like dealing with airlines, marriage, and fatherhood, into humorous and relatable stories was widely praised. Viewers appreciated his knack for making everyday frustrations feel universal, with reaction videos noting that his Southern charm and self-deprecating style made these segments particularly effective.
- Strong audience connection The live performance aspect of the special was highlighted as a strength, with viewers noting that May's interaction with the crowd added energy and authenticity to the set. Reaction videos frequently mentioned how well he read the room, adapting his delivery to keep the audience engaged.
- Authentic and unfiltered humor Kinopoisk audience comments described May's humor as genuine and unapologetic, with some viewers appreciating his willingness to tackle topics like body image and cultural stereotypes head-on. This rawness was seen as a refreshing contrast to more polished or politically correct comedy.
Common complaints
- Repetitive or familiar material Some viewers felt that parts of the special recycled jokes or themes from May's earlier work, particularly in segments about his weight or Southern upbringing. Reaction videos and Kinopoisk comments noted that while these topics were still funny, they lacked the novelty of his earlier specials.
- Uneven pacing A few reaction videos pointed out that certain segments dragged, particularly in the middle of the special, where the energy dipped. Some viewers felt that tighter editing could have improved the flow and kept the momentum going.
- Limited appeal for non-fans Kinopoisk audience comments suggested that the special might not resonate as strongly with viewers unfamiliar with May's style. Some noted that his humor relied heavily on his persona, which could feel niche or overly specific to those who weren't already fans.
Recommended for
Fans of Ralphie May's earlier work Viewers who enjoy self-deprecating and observational humor Audiences looking for a lighthearted, unfiltered stand-up special Those who appreciate Southern or blue-collar comedy perspectives
Full Plot (Spoilers)
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Buzz & Rumors
Public reportsHe said the title out loud in Maryland.
April 18, 2013, the Frederick News-Post printed the line before Netflix put it on a thumbnail. Ralphie May was headed to the Weinberg Center. Four Comedy Central hours already. Five platinum albums, he said. A podcast with his wife. He told the paper he was not a clean comic. "But I have a good heart. I'm imperfectly yours." TMDB dates the special February 23, 2013, United States, 69 minutes, Las Vegas stage, directed by Anthony Pierce, written by May. Netflix later stamped the same tape 2015 and wrote "Filmed live in 2013" under a TV-MA comedy card about men's fashion, latestnetflix.com contends, racism, sex, and waffles. 
Plex lists Lahna Turner as a producer. Moviefone lists Deez Nutz Entertainment and Hennepin Studios. Turner was his wife. They married July 3, 2005, had a daughter in 2007 and a son in 2009, and started the Perfect 10 podcast in 2013, the same year as this hour. They filed for divorce in October 2015 and asked for joint custody. The split never closed.
Second place paid the rent.
May finished behind Dat Phan on the first Last Comic Standing in 2003. Then The Tonight Show with Jay Leno, The Wayne Brady Show, and the only white comic on The Big Black Comedy Show with Mo'Nique. Comedy Central bought Girth of a Nation, Prime Cut, Austin-Tatious, and Too Big to Ignore. Netflix bought this one and Unruly. Wikipedia files Imperfectly Yours as a 2013 Netflix special even though the streamer printed 2015 on the box. The Vegas set sits between Too Big to Ignore and Unruly.
He had already almost died once. Gastric bypass in 2004 after Celebrity Fit Club. Viral pneumonia on a cruise in October 2011, forty pounds gone, then a pulmonary embolism that lodged a clot in an artery. He kept the fat jokes because that was the act. The New York Times obituary used his own billing, a comedian "who happens to be fat."
Same city, later. October 6, 2017, Las Vegas again. Cardiac arrest after weeks of pneumonia. He had just won Casino Comedian of the Year at the Global Gaming Expo and still had a Harrah's residency on the books. Variety ran the statement from publicist Stacey Pokluda. He was 45. The special that named itself in a Maryland interview sat on Netflix while the city he filmed it in buried him. 
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