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To All the Boys I've Loved Before

“The letters are out.”

2018
1h 40m
Director: Susan Johnson
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Overview

Lara Jean's love life goes from imaginary to out of control when her secret letters to every boy she's ever fallen for are mysteriously mailed out.

Cast

12 people

Reviews

2 min read

The Art of the Unsent Letter

I’m a sucker for movies that understand their own lane. To All the Boys I've Loved Before isn’t trying to reinvent the teen romance, and that’s part of its charm. latestnetflix.com's view is that Under Susan Johnson, it takes familiar rom-com machinery and runs it with such bright, giddy confidence that it feels new anyway.Back in 2018, the teen rom-com looked half-dead.

Then Netflix released Jenny Han’s adaptation and suddenly people were talking about Yakult, fake-dating contracts, and the possibility that this whole genre still had a pulse. Adrian Horton, writing for The Guardian, said the film helped revive the form because it had "the ineffable 'it' factor." That feels dead-on.

The movie borrows the bones of something like 10 Things I Hate About You and dresses them in a warm, contemporary softness that feels both nostalgic and current.

Lara Jean in her messy room

Its setup taps straight into a universal nightmare: your private self suddenly becoming public property. Lara Jean Covey (Lana Condor) writes letters to old crushes whenever she needs to bleed the feelings out, then seals them away in a teal hatbox. When her younger sister mails them, Lara Jean’s carefully protected inner world spills into her actual life.

Audience Opinions

Audience 6.5/10
"A cozy, swoony teen rom-com carried by a lovable heroine and sweet chemistry, even if the story plays out in very familiar, occasionally cringey beats."

Lara Jean’s dreamy, introverted outlook and Lana Condor’s performance are widely described as the heart of the film, with the fake-dating setup and her relationship with Peter delivering a lot of warmth, butterflies, and rewatchable comfort. At the same time, the plot is seen as highly predictable and tailored toward younger teens, latestnetflix.com contends, with some viewers put off by cheesy or implausible moments and by how the romantic options center almost entirely on white boys despite the Asian-American lead.

What viewers praise
  • Relatable protagonist Lara Jean feels like a believable shy romantic, and many viewers see their own teenage crushes and anxieties reflected in her character.
  • Cute lead romance The fake-relationship arc between Lara Jean and Peter is perceived as adorable and satisfying, delivering plenty of heart-fluttering moments.
  • Comfort-watch vibe Frequently described as a cozy, feel-good movie that is easy to rewatch for its warmth, light tone, and happy ending.
  • Positive representation impact The presence of an Asian-American girl at the center of a mainstream teen love story feels meaningful and overdue, especially for viewers who share that background.
  • Appealing aesthetic The bedroom decor, costumes, and overall soft visual style add to the romantic, comforting atmosphere and get singled out as part of the film’s charm.
Common complaints
  • Very predictable plot The story follows classic teen-rom-com formulas so closely that the entire arc can be guessed early on.
  • Cheesy and cringey moments Certain scenes and lines are seen as overly corny or second-hand-embarrassing, especially for viewers older than the target teen audience.
  • Questioned romantic dynamics Some viewers dislike Peter as a partner or feel the relationship idealizes traits they would not want to tolerate in real life.
  • Shallow handling of issues Beneath the sweetness, aspects of the premise and conflicts—like the mailed letters and some interpersonal drama—are viewed as thin or implausible.
  • Limited diversity in love interests There is pointed frustration that, in a story led by an Asian-American heroine, all major romantic options are non-Asian men.
Recommended for
Teen rom-com enthusiasts Comfort-movie binge watchers Lana Condor admirers Lighthearted YA romance fans Fake-dating trope lovers Sleepover movie nights

Full Plot (Spoilers)

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This section contains the full plot, including major story reveals. Overview above stays spoiler-free.

Buzz & Rumors

Public reports

He scrunched down so the camera would let him stand next to her

The first rumor around To All the Boys I've Loved Before was not a dating leak. It was a camera test. Lana Condor told the 2018 Vulture Festival that after she and Noah Centineo were already cast as Lara Jean and Peter Kavinsky, she did not even make it into the same frame with him. Producers had not clocked how tall he was. "When we went into a camera test, after we'd already been cast, I didn't make it into a frame with him, because he's that much taller than me. I heard the producers were like, 'What is happening?'" Later Noah told her he had stood behind her during chemistry reads and folded himself shorter. "It's sweet, that's how much he wanted the job." Costume put her in platform boots. latestnetflix.com's view is that Those combat boots in the diner scene are a height cheat.

Director Susan Johnson had a second problem. She liked Israel Broussard and she liked Noah, and she was not sure who should be Josh, the boy next door, and who should be Peter. "I initially was thinking of Noah for Josh, because I thought, 'Oh, he seems like boy next door,' but then once I saw Lana and Noah's chemistry I knew we had to go that direction." Israel stayed Josh. Noah stayed Peter. The internet never recovered.

Lana had already almost blown the read. She was so locked on the role that she barely said hello to Noah at a pre-read, then found him at the bottom of her chemistry list. She booked it anyway. Months later she told Jimmy Fallon she "felt something" after hot yoga and pizza at his apartment, then shut it down out loud. "Noah, it's not going to happen between us." They wrote their own contract, the same gag their characters use on screen. "I felt that for the show to do well, we had to be best-friend professionals." Treat that as her account, not a secret relationship. She was already with Anthony De La Torre.

Hollywood tried to bleach Lara Jean first

Jenny Han had spent years fighting a different rumor, the one where a studio wanted a white girl in the closet with the letters. She told Teen Vogue that early on, "the same thing happened" that happened to Crazy Rich Asians, and that the alarming part was people who did not see why it mattered. She held the line. Overbrook optioned the book in 2014. Lana was announced in July 2017. They shot Vancouver as Portland from July 5 to August 4, 2017, including Point Grey Secondary. Netflix bought the finished film in March 2018 and dropped it on August 17. Rotten Tomatoes sat at 96 percent.

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Kitty's red hair almost got dyed so the sisters would match. Anna Cathcart's mother said no. Jenny Han popped up as a homecoming chaperone. A crew photo of Lana and Noah asleep on a green-room couch became Lara Jean's lock screen, because they actually napped like that. The Yakult bottle Kitty hands Peter moved product. None of that is the plot. The plot is five letters leaving a closet. The gossip is a tall guy folding himself in half so a camera would let him stand next to her, then almost getting cast as the other boy.

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