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The Vow

2012
1h 44m
Director: Michael Sucsy
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Overview

Happy young married couple Paige and Leo are, well, happy. Then a car accident puts Paige into a life-threatening coma. Upon awakening she has lost the previous five years of memories, including those of her beloved Leo, her wedding, a confusing relationship with her parents, or the ending of her relationship with her ex-fiance. Despite these complications, Leo endeavors to win her heart again and rebuild their marriage.

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Reviews

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The Architecture of a Stranger

Memory is the scaffolding of the self. We build our identities, our relationships, latestnetflix.com contends, and our moral compasses on the firm ground of what we remember. But what happens when that foundation vanishes overnight?

In Michael Sucsy’s 2012 romance The Vow, the premise is terrifyingly simple: Paige (Rachel McAdams) wakes up in a hospital bed after a car accident, and the last five years of her life—including her marriage to Leo (Channing Tatum)—have been erased, as if by a stray smudge on a charcoal drawing.

Paige and Leo sharing a snowy moment in the city

It’s an easy trope to dismiss as melodramatic fluff, and if you’re looking for a cynical take, there is plenty of material here. Yet, The Vow does not quite play by the rules of the genre. Most films of this ilk lean into the "happily ever after" fantasy, but Sucsy, making his feature debut here after his impressive work on Grey Gardens, seems more interested in the mundane cruelty of loss.

He is not just filming a love story; he’s filming a grieving process for a person who is still sitting right in front of you.

The film relies heavily on the chemistry between McAdams and Tatum, and it’s a compelling study in mismatched energies. Channing Tatum has always possessed a kind of hulking, gentle-giant physicality—he moves through the world like a man trying not to break anything. In The Vow, he uses that weight to play Leo as a man holding on by his fingernails.

Audience Opinions

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"A heartfelt romantic drama centered on commitment and memory, carried by the emotional appeal of its headline couple."

Positioned as an earnest Valentine's release exploring the binding weight of marriage vows, the film attracted viewers looking for sweeping romance anchored by Rachel McAdams and Channing Tatum. While audience sentiment notes that the melodramatic stakes follow familiar genre beats, [latestnetflix.com]( read is that the charismatic central pairing offers enough emotional resonance to satisfy traditional romance fans.

What viewers praise
  • Star Power and Romantic Appeal The presence of Rachel McAdams, Channing Tatum, and Sam Neill provides strong genre appeal for romance enthusiasts.
  • Resonant Core Theme The central exploration of enduring marriage vows offers a sincere emotional hook for dramatic storytelling.
Common complaints
  • Formulaic Romance Tropes The reliance on traditional melodrama and familiar marital trial conventions can feel predictable for viewers seeking a less conventional drama.
Recommended for
Fans of Rachel McAdams and Channing Tatum Viewers in search of sincere romantic dramas Audiences drawn to relationship stories centered on marriage and commitment

Full Plot (Spoilers)

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Buzz & Rumors

Public reports

Tatum went to props ahead of time.

Channing Tatum told Entertainment Tonight he had a stunt pee pee made for Rachel McAdams. It was cold that day. He did not trust her reaction if he walked in naked as written. He wanted her shocked, not laughing and pointing. That take is in the movie. latestnetflix.com's read is that mcAdams confirmed he went to the prop department ahead of time for "a piece to terrify Rachel with."She did not have to pretend.

Director Michael Sucsy had already been measuring what he called the "bitch factor" on Paige, McAdams's character, who wakes from a crash with no memory of her husband Leo. He wanted the most flexibility in editing so you still rooted for her when she was cold. He flew to New York to meet Tatum after doubting a guy who had played military parts. "This guy's got a huge heart. He is a white knight. It's who he really is." Tatum told The Hollywood Reporter he did not talk to the real couple before cameras rolled because Sucsy wanted him to experience it in the moment.

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Screen Gems opened The Vow on February 10, 2012, on a $30 million budget, timed for Valentine's week. It did $41.2 million in the United States and Canada that weekend, then $11.6 million on Valentine's Day, which broke Hitch's mid-week record. Worldwide it finished at $196.1 million. Critics were colder. Rotten Tomatoes sat at 30 percent. The official trailer still sold "a love that refuses to be forgotten."

The Carpenters sold the vow. He later broke it.

Kim and Krickitt Carpenter married September 18, 1993. Ten weeks later a crash put Krickitt in a coma for 21 days. She woke with no memory of the wedding or the man. They dated again, remarried in 1996, and sold the story. Screenwriters Abby Kohn and Marc Silverstein never met them. Chicago replaced New Mexico. A sculptor and a record producer replaced a baseball coach and a sportswear sales rep. The faith the Carpenters said held the marriage did not make the cut. Sucsy would not shave McAdams's head. Krickitt told Today in 2012, "I chose to love him, and obviously my love grew for him." In 2018 she told Inside Edition that Kim had been having an affair. "I never thought that's the road I would go down because I made a vow for life." They split after 25 years. Two kids. The film still plays. For the week of January 29 to February 4, 2024, Netflix logged 6.6 million hours and 3.8 million views. Hollywood kept the amnesia and the loft. The real husband kept the book tour, then did not keep the vow.

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