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You People

“Opposites attract. Families don't.”

2023
1h 57m
Director: Kenya Barris
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Overview

A new couple and their families reckon with modern love amid culture clashes, societal expectations and generational differences.

Cast

12 people

Reviews

5 min read

Love in the Time of Algorithms

I’ll admit it: I went into You People expecting a Kenya Barris joint to deliver the kind of sharp, satirical bite that made Black-ish such a standout. What I got instead was something messier, more uneven, and—if I’m being honest—more interesting than the sum of its parts. This isn’t the kind of film that lands with a clean thud or a triumphant flourish.

It’s the kind that lingers in the corners of your mind, not because it’s flawless, but because it’s trying so hard to be about something real.

A couple sits on a couch, surrounded by family, tension thick in the air

The premise is simple enough: Ezra (Jonah Hill), a wealthy, aimless podcast host, falls for Amira (Lauren London), a sharp, no-nonsense fashion designer. Their whirlwind romance is complicated by the fact that Ezra is white and Jewish, Amira is Black and Muslim, and their families are, well, families. The tagline—*"Opposites attract.

Families don’t."—promises a culture-clash comedy in the vein of Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner, updated for the age of Instagram and therapy speak. And for a while, that’s exactly what You People* delivers. The early scenes crackle with the kind of rapid-fire, observational humor that Barris has built his career on.

There’s a particularly sharp exchange where Amira’s parents (Eddie Murphy and Nia Long, both in fine form) grill Ezra about his intentions, their skepticism palpable even as they try to keep things civil. Murphy, in particular, steals every scene he’s in—not with the kind of over-the-top antics you might expect from his recent work, but with a quiet, weary charm that makes you wish he’d been given more to do.

But here’s the thing: You People isn’t content to be just a rom-com. It wants to be a statement. And that’s where things get complicated.

The film’s biggest misstep might be its tonal whiplash. One minute, it’s a breezy, Meet the Parents-style farce, with Julia Louis-Dreyfus as Ezra’s overbearing mother and David Duchovny as his clueless dad, spouting cringe-worthy dad jokes and microaggressions with equal abandon. The next, it’s a earnest meditation on the weight of history, with Ezra and Amira’s relationship straining under the pressure of generational trauma and societal expectations.

The problem isn’t that the film tackles these themes—it’s that it doesn’t seem to trust its audience (or itself) to hold both tones at once. The shifts feel abrupt, as if Barris is afraid the audience might get bored if he lingers too long in either mode.

Audience Opinions

Audience 6.2/10
"A well-intentioned but uneven comedy that struggles to balance its cultural themes with consistent humor."

The film’s exploration of interracial relationships and generational clashes provides moments of genuine insight and warmth, particularly through the performances of Jonah Hill and Lauren London. However, the humor often falls flat, with jokes feeling forced or overly reliant on stereotypes, latestnetflix.com argues, leaving the comedy feeling disjointed rather than cohesive.

What viewers praise
  • Strong lead performances Jonah Hill and Lauren London deliver heartfelt and engaging performances, grounding the film’s emotional core.
  • Thoughtful cultural themes The film tackles interracial relationships and family dynamics with sincerity and nuance, offering meaningful commentary.
  • Eddie Murphy’s return Eddie Murphy’s presence is a highlight, bringing energy and charisma to his role as a supportive but opinionated father.
  • Warm family moments Scenes depicting family interactions feel authentic and heartwarming, adding depth to the story.
Common complaints
  • Inconsistent humor The comedy often misses the mark, with jokes feeling forced or falling into predictable stereotypes.
  • Underdeveloped side characters Supporting characters, including those played by Julia Louis-Dreyfus and David Duchovny, lack depth and feel underutilized.
  • Predictable plot The story follows familiar rom-com tropes without enough fresh twists to stand out.
  • Tonal whiplash The film struggles to balance its comedic and dramatic elements, leading to uneven pacing and tone.
Recommended for
Fans of romantic comedies Jonah Hill and Lauren London admirers Eddie Murphy enthusiasts Lighthearted family drama lovers Cultural commentary seekers

Buzz & Rumors

Public reports

Jonah Hill wrote the in-laws. Then he skipped the carpet.

The star of You People was not in Westwood on January 17, 2023. Eddie Murphy, Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Lauren London, Nia Long, David Duchovny, and Kenya Barris walked the Regency Village Theatre. Hill had already told Deadline, months earlier, that nearly 20 years of anxiety attacks got worse every time he did press. "You won't see me out there promoting this film, latestnetflix.com contends, or any of my upcoming films," he wrote. ,

London covered for him on the carpet. "I hold space for Jonah Hill. That's my homeboy," she told Variety. "Whatever he needs to do for his soul, I am there for it." Louis-Dreyfus said you have to protect yourself. The movie they were selling was a love letter to Los Angeles that Hill co-wrote, produced, and then refused to sell in person.

Barris has been open about how it started. He loved Mid90s. They texted. A 30-minute sit-down ran three hours. Hill was dating a Cuban woman. Barris's children's mother is biracial. The conceit, Barris told Complex, was that the couple is rarely the problem. The noise around them is. They wanted to flip Guess Who's Coming to Dinner so Murphy sat in the Spencer Tracy chair and Louis-Dreyfus fetishized the Black daughter-in-law. ,

Casting London almost did not happen. She had done very little and did not want the meeting. Barris dragged her to Soho House in Malibu anyway. He and producer Kevin Misher walked out saying they could not make the film without her. One of them lives south of the I-10, the other north. That was the joke.

The teaser they almost used was a car conversation about a Kanye West and Jay-Z record. Then West's antisemitic spiral hit the news, and Netflix swapped the clip for Jonah sweating through lunch at Roscoe's House of Chicken 'N Waffles. Barris said the streamer did not want to open that door. The finished film still put Louis Farrakhan on the dinner table. Mira Fox at The Forward wrote that Akbar's slave-trade conspiracy goes unrebuked, and that the movie treats Jews as "the worst kind of white people." Rotten Tomatoes landed at 39 percent. , ,

YTYouTube·You People | Official Trailer | Netflix
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None of that slowed the algorithm. You People had a limited theatrical bow on January 20 and hit Netflix on January 27. Deadline logged 55.65 million hours in the first week, number one among English-language films, miles ahead of Inheritance at 11.6 million. Netflix's later engagement dump put the total at 181.8 million hours through June 2023, about 92.4 million views. , ,

The official trailer still sells Murphy testing Hill on a basketball court. Hill is not in it as a public face. He is in the credits as writer, producer, and the guy who asked for the daughter's hand and then stayed home.

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