Jane Alderson

Overview
Rascal Flatts bassist Jay DeMarcus and ex-beauty queen Allison DeMarcus write their own rules for juggling family and fun in this reality show.
Seasons
- Status
- Returning Series
- Seasons
- 1 season
- Episodes
- 6 episodes
- First aired
- Aug 19, 2020
Cast
8 peopleReviews
5 min readThe Reality of Being Nice
I’ll admit it: I came to DeMarcus Family Rules expecting a train wreck. Not the kind with screaming matches and wine thrown in slow motion—just something, anything, to justify six episodes of a reality show about a country musician, his beauty-queen wife, and their blended Nashville brood. What I got instead was a series so determined to be wholesome it forgot to be interesting.
And yet, somewhere between the casseroles and the catty one-liners, I found myself oddly charmed.

This is a show that wants to sell you on the idea that family can be fun. Jay DeMarcus, the bassist for Rascal Flatts, and Allison, his ex-Miss Tennessee wife, are the kind of people who say things like “We don’t have rules, we have guidelines” with straight faces. Their kids—two from Jay’s previous marriage, two from Allison’s—bicker over chores, roll their eyes at parental lectures, and occasionally hug it out.
It’s the kind of domestic tableau that would feel staged if it weren’t so painfully, almost aggressively normal. The biggest conflict in the first episode? Whether the family should go to a water park or stay home and watch movies.
The stakes are so low they might as well be nonexistent.
And that, I think, is the point. DeMarcus Family Rules isn’t trying to be The Real Housewives or Jersey Shore. It’s not even trying to be Chrisley Knows Best, the show that reportedly midwifed its existence. (More on that later.) It’s a reality show for people who don’t like reality shows—people who want to believe that family life can be a series of small, manageable joys rather than a never-ending cycle of drama.
The problem is that joy, when it’s this carefully curated, starts to feel like a performance. Not of malice, but of niceness.
Take the infamous bathtub scene. Jay and Allison, fully clothed, sit side by side in a clawfoot tub, discussing their marriage like it’s a business merger. “We have separate houses,” Allison says, deadpan. “It’s the only way this works.” The moment is so bizarrely intimate and yet so carefully staged that it becomes a kind of meta-commentary on reality TV itself. Here are two people, in a bathtub, on camera, talking about how they maintain boundaries.
Audience Opinions
"A lighthearted reality series that charms with its family dynamics but struggles to stand out in the crowded genre."
Viewers appreciate the genuine interactions and warmth among the DeMarcus family, finding their everyday moments relatable and endearing. latestnetflix.com's read is that however, the series often feels too polished and lacks the spontaneity or drama that typically drives reality TV, leaving some wanting more depth or excitement.
- Genuine family moments The natural chemistry and authentic interactions among family members resonate well with audiences.
- Relatable content Everyday family life and parenting struggles are presented in a way that feels accessible and heartwarming.
- Lighthearted tone The series maintains a consistently upbeat and positive vibe, making it an easy watch for casual viewers.
- Lacks drama The absence of conflict or tension makes the series feel tame compared to other reality shows.
- Predictable format The episodes follow a formulaic structure that doesn’t evolve much, leading to a sense of repetitiveness.
- Overly polished Some viewers feel the series is too staged or scripted, detracting from its authenticity.
Buzz & Rumors
Public reportsTodd Chrisley sold Netflix a neighbor show over dinner.
Jay DeMarcus told MusicRow the pitch happened around the corner from his Nashville house. He and Allison had already appeared on Chrisley Knows Best a handful of times. At dinner, Todd Chrisley said he had never done a show outside his own family, then told them they had one. The way they were with each other, and how funny and unpredictable the kids were, would be the peek behind the curtain when Jay came home off the road. Jay admitted they had "little trepidations" about cameras everywhere. latestnetflix.com's view is that Chrisley promised to protect the Rascal Flatts brand Jay had spent two decades building.
The six-episode Netflix original arrived on August 19, 2020. Maverick TV USA, All3Media America, and Todd Chrisley Productions made it. The Rascal Flatts site lists John Hesling, Simon Knight, Todd Chrisley, and Scott Teti as executive producers. Jay and Allison, married since 2004, sit at the center with Madeline, then 9, and Dylan, then 8. Allison is a former Miss Tennessee, Miss Tennessee Teen USA, and Miss Tennessee USA, and co-executive director of the Miss Tennessee pageant. They met on the set of the Rascal Flatts "These Days" video, where she played Gary LeVox's love interest. Netflix still tags her an "ex-beauty queen" in the one-line synopsis. ,
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He walked in with a St. Bernard. She had packed a week's outfits.
Taste of Country called them "the ultimate odd couple" off the trailer. Allison says she was raised with rules. Jay answers that he was raised just to keep his private parts covered up. She plans outfits. He arrives with a St. Bernard that did not look pre-approved. B104.7 described the clips Netflix wanted. Camping. A birthday that goes big. Jay in a hazmat suit frying a Thanksgiving turkey. A chainsaw at a campfire. Jay's line in that same write-up is the show's thesis. Kids grow up too fast, so you have to create lifelong memories. ,
A crew filmed for three months from October through December 2019, all of it before COVID froze the road. Allison told MusicRow they captured Madeline's birthday and Thanksgiving. That Thanksgiving, she said, was the first time the whole family sat together since her father died in 2016. Dylan wanted the cameras to stay. Madeline took longer. Jay said they did not map scenes. The editors shaped the half-hours after the fact. TVmaze's episode list is all dated August 19, 2020, including Life Is a Highway, A Dog Day Thanksgiving, and the finale Rules for the Future. ,
The band stayed off camera. Season 2 never arrived.
Jay told MusicRow that Gary LeVox and Joe Don Rooney do not appear in those first episodes, with a maybe for later seasons. Taste of Country noted that Rascal Flatts were in their 20th year and that the Farewell: Life Is a Highway Tour had already been cancelled for the pandemic. The family had not seen the cut. Allison said they would watch it with everyone else. On the band site, Jay said he did not think anyone would be ready for what they would see once a man who had spent most of his adult life on the road came home and tried to follow the rules. Allison laughed that she did not know whether to be nervous or excited, that she is reserved and Jay is "pretty...not so reserved." Netflix still lists a 2020 TV-14 reality series. TMDB still files one six-episode season as a returning series. No second season ever showed up. , , , ,
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