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My Dearest Señorita

2026
1h 56m
R · Spanish
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Overview

A young woman from a traditional family learns she's intersex, sparking a journey of self-discovery, gender identity and love found in unexpected places.

Cast

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Reviews

7 min read

The Body as a Question Mark

I kept waiting for the film to tell me what Adela was feeling. That’s the wrong way to put it—I knew what she was feeling, or at least I thought I did. The quiet devastation in her eyes when the doctor delivered the news, the way her fingers lingered on the hospital gown as if testing its weight against her own skin.

What I couldn’t figure out was why the camera seemed so reluctant to move closer. My Dearest Señorita is a film that watches its protagonist like a stranger might watch someone through a café window: with curiosity, even tenderness, but from a distance that feels deliberate, almost clinical. And then, in one scene, it lets you in.

Adela (Elisabeth Martínez) sits on the edge of her bed in her childhood home in Pamplona, the same house where she’s lived since she was a girl, the same house where her family still calls her by a name she no longer recognizes. The walls are a pale, sickly yellow, the kind of color that looks warm in daylight but turns oppressive under the glow of a single bedside lamp. She’s holding a letter—no, not a letter, a medical report—and her hands are shaking, just slightly, the way hands do when they’re trying not to.

The camera doesn’t cut away. It doesn’t offer a close-up of her face, doesn’t zoom in on the paper trembling between her fingers. It just stays there, a medium shot, patient and unyielding, as if daring the audience to look away first.

Adela sits on her bed, the medical report trembling in her hands, the pale yellow walls pressing in around her.

That’s the film in a nutshell: a story about a woman learning she’s intersex, not through some grand revelation or dramatic breakdown, but through the slow, grinding work of living inside a body that has suddenly become a question mark. Fernando González Molina, the director, has said in interviews that he wanted to avoid the “trauma porn” often associated with stories about marginalized identities.

Fair enough. But what he’s made instead is something riskier—a film that refuses to perform its own empathy. It doesn’t ask you to weep for Adela.

It asks you to sit with her discomfort, to feel the weight of her silence, and to wonder, as she does, what it means to be seen when the person doing the seeing doesn’t even know what they’re looking at.


There’s a moment early on, before Adela learns the truth about herself, when she attends a family gathering. The scene is shot in a single, unbroken take, the camera gliding through the room like an uninvited guest. The relatives talk over one another, their voices a cacophony of small-town gossip and well-meaning but suffocating concern. “When are you going to settle down?” “You’re not getting any younger.” “Have you met so-and-so’s son?” Adela moves through the crowd like a ghost, her smile fixed, her responses polite but noncommittal.

The camera follows her, but it doesn’t linger on her face. Instead, it watches the way her body tenses when someone touches her shoulder, the way her eyes flick toward the door as if calculating an escape route. It’s a masterclass in physical acting, and Martínez—an intersex newcomer making her screen debut—does it all without saying a word.

Audience Opinions

Audience 6.7/10
"A quietly affecting intersex identity drama powered by a subtle central performance, though its slow pace and gentle, sometimes overly soft approach divide opinion."

The honest, restrained portrayal of Adela’s self-discovery draws strong appreciation; several call the story beautiful, intimate, and lingering long after it ends. Its focus on kindness, chosen family, and belonging over trauma connects even when it challenges or unsettles in productive ways. Deliberate pacing, a tendency toward sentimentality, and familiar queer identity beats keep some from fully embracing it.

What viewers praise
  • Nuanced lead performance Elisabeth Martínez plays Adela as a fully rounded person rather than a symbol, with calm precision and quiet intensity that make the character feel real.
  • Intimate quiet tone Emotion is conveyed through lingering looks and silence instead of big speeches, creating a sense of watching something personal and private unfold.
  • Thoughtful identity exploration The film’s handling of intersex experience, self-discovery, and internal conflict prompts self-reflection and challenges narrow views on gender and sexuality.
  • Emphasis on chosen family The script centers kindness and support from nontraditional families and marginalized characters rather than dwelling only on suffering.
  • Lasting emotional resonance A story that lingers: some are moved to tears, others call it a film you sit with rather than simply watch.
Common complaints
  • Very slow pacing The steady, unhurried rhythm and quiet approach leave some bored or detached, especially if you expect more dramatic momentum.
  • Tone can feel too gentle The focus on kindness and hopeful notes can feel overly soft or idealized for such heavy subject matter.
  • Familiar queer story beats The journey of revelation, exclusion, and eventual acceptance follows patterns already well established in LGBTQ+ dramas.
  • Slightly uneven performances The acting is often called masterful, but a few supporting turns come across as eccentric or tonally off next to the lead.
Recommended for
Character-focused drama fans Slow-burn LGBTQ+ stories Intimate European cinema lovers Intersex and gender identity themes Quiet emotional storytelling Chosen-family narratives

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Buzz & Rumors

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Goth Wigs, Health Scares & a History-Making Lead: The Juiciest Real-Life Stories Behind My Dearest Señorita (2026)

latestnetflix.com's view is that netflix’s 2026 remake of My Dearest Señorita isn’t just emotional on screen; the road to getting Adela from Pamplona to your living room was packed with casting quests, on-set chaos, and a very committed goth makeover.


Casting Adela: The Near-Impossible Search for Elisabeth Martínez

  • From day one, director Fernando G. Molina drew a line in the sand: the lead HAD to be intersex, or there’d be no movie. He’s said that casting an intersex actress “was key for the project from the very first conversation with the producers,” not a late-in-the-game PR move. - That turned into one of the film’s biggest challenges. Molina straight-up admits that “finding Elisabeth has been one of the greatest challenges of the film,” underscoring how few intersex performers are given space in casting pipelines at all. - Enter Elisabeth Martínez: an intersex newcomer making her on-screen debut as Adela. Critics have praised her performance as calm, intense, and strikingly unforced, the kind of “how is this your first role?” moment casting directors dream about. - The 1972 original famously cast a cis male star in the role, so this remake doesn’t just update the script; it flips the politics of the casting booth, turning Martínez herself into the movie’s boldest creative statement.

Set Shock: The Shoot That Stopped Dead on Day Ten

  • Principal photography kicked off in Pamplona, Navarre, on 3 February 2025, with Netflix and producers Suma Content (run by power duo Los Javis: Javier Ambrossi & Javier Calvo) behind the cameras. - Ten days in, everything screeched to a halt. Director Fernando G. Molina suffered a health issue serious enough to shut down production. - The crew paused for about a week, then regrouped in Madrid to continue filming, juggling locations, schedules, and a cast that suddenly had to reorient around a new production rhythm. - That crisis moment didn’t make it into the press junkets as a sob story—but it absolutely shaped the film’s timeline, forcing the team to pull off a delicate recovery before the Málaga premiere deadline.

Manu Ríos in His Goth Era: Hot Topic by Way of Netflix

  • Manu Ríos, usually associated with sun-kissed, pretty-boy vibes, dove headfirst into a gothic metamorphosis for his character Gato. - The look: a pitch-black wig, intense eyeliner, black nail polish, and outfits described as “straight out of Hot Topic”–style goth. - Ríos shared set pics and behind-the-scenes notes saying that “starting out in cinema with a character like this has been a gift,” adding that Gato is someone who offers support and embodies chosen family, not just a moody aesthetic prop. - Queer press and fans zeroed in on this makeover, calling it a full “goth era” and highlighting how his character functions as emotional backbone and queer community avatar in Adela’s journey.

Los Javis, Cameo Queens & Queer Cinema Royalty

  • The film is produced by Suma Content, the company run by Javier Ambrossi and Javier Calvo—aka Los Javis—who’ve become synonymous with bold, queer-forward Spanish TV and film. - They’re explicit about their mission: using My Dearest Señorita to “bring visibility to realities like those of intersex people, with whom we still have a pending debt as a society.”
  • As if that weren’t gay royalty enough, the remake sprinkles in cameos and nods to LGBTQ+ icons like musician Rodrigo Cuevas and drag/singer legend La Prohibida, plus a blink-and-you-miss-it appearance by screenwriter Alana S. Portero herself. - Critics have also spotted stylistic winks to Pedro Almodóvar, merging classic Spanish melodrama flair with a new-gen, intersex-centered narrative.

From Galicia to Pamplona: Rewriting a Classic for a New Generation

  • The 1972 original was set in Galicia; the 2026 version uproots Adela’s world and plants it firmly in Pamplona—Molina’s own hometown—before sending her to Madrid. - That move isn’t just about pretty streets. It grounds the story in a conservative, traditional setting Molina knows intimately, making Adela’s escape to Madrid feel sharper and more personal. - The script, penned by trans writer Alana S. Portero, is designed to “illuminate the shadows” of the original—expanding the intersex storyline that was only vaguely hinted at in the ’70s version into a full, unapologetic identity odyssey. - Early critics rewarded the gamble: by May 2026, the film was sitting on a 100% Rotten Tomatoes score from its first wave of reviews, praised as harrowing, tender, and quietly radical in how it handles gender, shame, and self-acceptance.

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